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Christmas celebrations and loved ones remembered at Royal Star & Garter’s Starlight services

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A series of services have been held by Royal Star & Garter to celebrate the lives of its residents past and present and the Christmas season.


The annual Starlight services took place in Solihull, Surbiton, and High Wycombe at the beginning of December, and included hymns, readings and carols.


The services were held at St Matthew’s Church in Surbiton on 1 December and St Alphege Church in Solihull on 7 December. Both were attended by members of the local community. A smaller private service was held at the newly opened Home in High Wycombe on 1 December.

Residents, relatives, staff and volunteers attended the Solihull service in St Alphege Church

Among those attending Starlight were relatives and friends of Royal Star & Garter residents who have died. The services also included a Roll Call reading of the names of residents who have passed away in the past 12 months.


Christmas trees were adorned with stars bearing personal messages written by friends and family in memory of loved ones who had died.

The Surbiton Starlight service took place at St Matthew's Church

The service at St Alphege Church featured the church choir and readings by residents. Following the services guests were treated to mince pies and mulled wine.


There were also readings at Surbiton and performances from the Star & Garter Singers – a choir made up of residents, relatives, volunteers and staff. The High Wycombe Starlight service included readings, hymns and carols. It was led by Padre Squadron Leader Chrissie Lacey from RAF High Wycombe.

The High Wycombe Starlight service

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Both Vicky Peirson’s parents were cared for at the Surbiton Home. Her father died 2015 and mother in July this year. She said: “It was wonderful to place a star on the tree in memory of my parents. It was a moving service but not too sad. For me it was a celebration and a lovely way to start Christmas.”

Wooden Christmas tree decorations, available at the Solihull service, are now available at the charity's Homes

The Starlight Service at High Wycombe was its first, as the Home only opened in April this year. Home Administrator Lucy Gibbons said “It was poignant and very moving. I felt honoured to be able to share this beautiful service with our residents in the Home.”


Sue, who lives at the Solihull Home with her husband, read a poem at the Starlight service. She later said: “I enjoyed it very much. It was very touching.”

Student military volunteer Private Noa Docherty, a volunteer at the Solihull home

The stars bearing personalised messages will now be used to help decorate the Homes, bringing festive cheer to residents.


A limited number of Royal Star & Garter Christmas tree wooden decorations are available at the Homes in the run-up to Christmas for a suggested £3 donation.


Christmas cards raising money for Royal Star & Garter, including designs by residents, are also on sale. To see the charity’s 2019 Christmas catalogue, go to or call 01934 522920.


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