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RAF pilot’s widow volunteers at care home bearing husband’s name

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Jules with residents Barbara and Ena

The widow of a decorated RAF pilot has spoken of her pride at volunteering in a local High Wycombe care home which bears her husband’s name.


Jules Bendell is one of the first volunteers to help out at Royal Star & Garter in Hughenden Avenue, which opened in April and provides loving, compassionate care to veterans and their partners living with disability or dementia.


The second floor of the Home is named Bendell House after her husband, following a public Who’s Your Hero? competition run by the charity to honour people with strong links to the military and the surrounding area.

Ena paints under the watchful eye of High Wycombe volunteer Jules

Wing Commander Anthony ‘Bugs’ Bendell AFC OBE RAF was cared for by the charity at its Richmond and Surbiton Homes. Bugs, who was ranked among the RAF’s most skilled and talented pilots during the Cold War period, retired in 1987 after being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. He had hoped to move into the High Wycombe Home and took part in its ground-breaking ceremony in 2016, but sadly died later that year.


Jules said: “I decided to be a volunteer long before I knew the Home would bear Bugs’ name, because I saw the good work the volunteers were doing when he was being cared for at Surbiton.”

The citation in honour of Bugs which hangs in the Home’s Bendell House

Jules has been a frequent visitor to the High Wycombe Home, attending the Remembrance and Starlight services, and helping out with activities. She said: “I think the Home is fabulous. There is a warm, friendly atmosphere. All the staff are splendid, and the residents delightful. Royal Star & Garter is a wonderful charity and I am thrilled to be a part of it.”


Volunteers make an invaluable and diverse contribution to the lives of residents, helping with the delivery of activities and outings at the three Royal Star & Garter Homes. They benefit from an induction, management, development and support programme, and work closely with the Home’s Activities & Volunteers Manager.

Anthony ‘Bugs’ Bendell at the High Wycombe Home’s 2016 ground-breaking ceremony with Royal Star & Garter Chairman Maj Gen Tim Tyler, Jules Bendell, Wycombe District Council Chairman Cllr Ian McEnnis, and the charity’s Chief Executive Andy Cole

High Wycombe Home Manager Chelle Daly said: “It’s an honour to have Bugs’ name gracing our Home, and I’m delighted our close connection with the Bendell family is continuing with Jules’ volunteering. We’re lucky to have her.”


For more information about volunteering at Royal Star & Garter, go to


For more information about care at High Wycombe, contact the Home at or call 01494 927 555.

Jules shows Ena her husband's plaque at the High Wycombe Home
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